You're not lazy for wanting something different.

Jan 11, 2026

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You're exhausted from chasing the next win.

The better title, the incremental salary bump, the slightly improved role.

And you feel guilty for being tired of it.

Like you should be grateful for the progression.

Like questioning the path makes you ungrateful.

The story we've been sold: Keep optimising and you'll eventually arrive somewhere meaningful. Polish your CV, network strategically, take on more responsibility. Inch your way to fulfilment.

But here's what nobody mentions.

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